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What is the most exciting endeavor you’ve ever been involved with as a Christian?

Here’s my Top 5 list:

Number 5: Worshiping God where He’s clearly present.  I remember a midweek service in Santa Clara in the mid-1990s.  We sang worship songs from the depths of our being.  We sang “How Beautiful” before communion – and then we feasted on Jesus during communion.  There’s nothing in the world like worshiping God with your spiritual brothers and sisters when He’s really there.

Know anywhere where you can experience that kind of worship?

Number 4: Seeing a friend come to Christ.  When I was 17, I led a friend named John to the Lord.  We went to a nearby school, where we hit baseballs and threw a football around.  I then told him about Jesus, and John received Him – and 40 years later, he’s still following the Lord.  It’s mindboggling to realize that someone is going to spend eternity with God because the Lord chose to use you.

Know anyone who needs the Lord?  When is the last time you talked with them about Him?

Number 3: Going on a mission trip.  I’ve only been on five – three to northeastern Arizona to minister to Navajo children, and two to the Eastern European country of Moldova.  But a mission trip forces you to call together all you are and know about Jesus.  You are totally dependent upon Him for everything: safe travel, eating food, sleeping accommodations, primitive transportation, language barriers, sharing testimonies … everything.

The Mormons require two years of missionary service for young adults.  I think every Christian should spend at least two weeks sharing Christ in another culture.  Any amens?

Know any church that’s going on a mission trip soon?  Ours is going to Ireland soon … and I’m tempted …

Number 2: Using your spiritual gifts.  When you’re doing what God has called you to do – whether that’s teaching kids, or serving refreshments, or leading a small group, or singing on a worship team – the Lord gives you a sense of contentedness and completeness you can’t find anywhere else.

Every time I got up to preach, I felt like I was doing what God made me to do.

Know what God has called you to do?  Know anywhere you can do it?

Number 1: Starting a new church.  Believe me: there is nothing more exciting, fun, and dangerous than starting a new church!  It’s breathtaking.

When most of us visit a church, it’s already up and going.  The buildings are there, the activities are set, and the staff is in place.  But when you get in on the ground floor … and your ideas can mold a church’s future … it’s awesome!

I’ve only done this once.  My church did it the hard way: we sold our property and used the proceeds to begin a new church with a new name in a new location to reach a new demographic.

While we worked from an overall model, we had no template for much of what we did.  With God’s help, we made it up as we went along.  Talk about revitalizing your spiritual life!

One Thursday night, my brother John came to town.  We stopped by the warehouse where our church met.  More than 25 people were rehearsing for that Sunday’s service.  In one room, someone was working with a computer for a video presentation.  There were people in the sound booth and high up in the video booth.  There was a band on the stage with several vocalists waiting their turn to sing.  There was a drama group rehearsing in another room, waiting to take the stage.

The camraderie was truly amazing.  It was spine-tingling to be a part of it.  And from time-to-time, I hear from people who were in that church, and they tell me that was the best church experience they ever had.

If you hear of a new church starting somewhere near you, see if you can become part of the core group.  It will revitalize you!

If your spiritual life needs some shaking up, try one or more of the activities I’ve mentioned above.

Got one in mind?

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How often does anything miraculous happen at your church?

Has any hardhearted individual chosen to follow Christ recently?  Has a dormant ministry suddenly turned around?  Has a terminally ill individual been gloriously healed?

After I wrote my last article on the Holy Spirit, it struck me later that night: too many churches give little evidence that God is alive and working supernaturally in their midst.

Consider the following examples:

*Intead of trusting in the power of God’s Word, pastors use Scripture as a springboard to what they really wanted to say.

*Instead of spending a few quality minutes speaking with God in prayer, pastors sprint through their public prayers.

*Instead of holding prayer meetings during the week, church leaders hold strategy sessions – and hardly pray at all.

*Instead of trusting Christians to invite people via word of mouth, church leaders rely on marketing and social networking to tell people about Jesus and their church.

*Instead of being faithful to the gospel message, some church leaders believe they need to reinvent the gospel “to reach more people.”

*Instead of acknowledging the existence and cunning of Satan, church leaders ignore the fact we’re in a spiritual battle.

*Instead of submitting themselves to the control of God’s Spirit, church leaders trust their own education, experience, and energy.

Friends, we can’t superimpose an American business model onto our churches and expect to see God working miracles in our midst – but that’s just what many church leaders are doing today.

I read a blog the other night that disturbed me.  The writer was an ex-pastor’s wife and a former Christian.  She no longer believes in Jesus, His church, or His leaders.  While commenting on the state of the American church, she noted that many top pastors could run any kind of organization and make it go.  They’re CEOs by nature, and they run their churches that way.  And by American standards, they’re successful.

Of course, try asking that same pastor if he’ll stand by the death bed of your loved one.

But how often does God work in our churches without the pastor planning, prodding, pushing, and plotting?

I’m a non-charismatic.  I seek the biblical charisma without charismania.  I don’t like fleshly attempts to whip a congregation into a frenzy so we can claim that God is in our midst.

But I long to see God show up in a service or in a meeting without our efforts to manage Him.  And when He doesn’t show up for weeks or months, what are we to conclude?

That He doesn’t exist?  Or that we’re doing something wrong?

When I attend a worship service, I want three things to happen:

First, I want to sense the presence of God.  I want to know that God is here, right now.

Second, I want to hear God’s Word taught clearly, courageously, and passionately.

Finally, I want the Lord to move my heart and soul.  I seek His touch in my life.

A few weeks ago, my wife and I attended a service at Calvary Chapel Pacific Hills in Orange County where my long-time friend Dave is the pastor.

The worship leaders and band truly led us into the presence of God.

Dave spoke for an hour from Revelation 22 and it seemed like just a few minutes.  He had taught through the entire Bible in nine years and had one Sunday to go!

And I was deeply, deeply moved by the entire service.

I’ve been to larger churches.  I’ve been to smaller churches.  But I haven’t been to better churches – and I can’t wait to go back sometime soon.

What happens in your church for which God is the only explanation?

Dr. Luke writes in Acts 9:31: “Then the church throughout Judea, Galilee and Samaria enjoyed a time of peace.  It was strengthened; and encouraged by the Holy Spirit, it grew in numbers, living in the fear of the Lord.”

May His touch be upon you this weekend and always.

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Many years ago, while walking around the Biola College (now University) campus one afternoon, my friend Dave bolted out of his Bible class grinning from ear to ear.  He asked me, “Where did Jesus get the ability to do His ministry?”

I made several guesses, both of them wrong.  Dave excitedly revealed the answer: “By the power of the Holy Spirit.”

I had attended church multiple times every week since infancy, but I had never heard that before.  In fact, I didn’t know much about the ministry of the Holy Spirit at all.  It was too esoteric, too nebulous, too scary.

In seminary, I took an accelerated two-week course on Pneumatology: the study of the Holy Spirit.  During that class, we had to list and categorize every reference to the Holy Spirit in the New Testament.

What an eye-opening class that was!

The three New Testament statements that most impacted me were found in Luke 4:

Right after His baptism, Luke 4:1 says, “Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit in the desert …”

Jesus was full of the Spirit.  How many pastors and staff members and Christians can say that they are constantly filled with God’s Spirit?  Jesus was.

Because He was full of the Spirit, Jesus was also led by the Spirit … into the Judean wilderness to be tempted by Satan.  I am not a fan of desolate deserts.  Jesus wasn’t either, but He had to endure “wilderness training” before He was ready to minister to people.

After beating back Satan’s temptations, Luke 4:14 tells us that “Jesus returned to Galilee in the power of the Spirit …”  When we’re filled with the Spirit, the Father gives us the power of the Spirit.  Jesus could not carry out the Father’s wishes in His own strength, even though He was the God-Man.  No, my friend Dave was right: Jesus needed the Spirit’s empowerment to advance the kingdom.

Jesus engaged in a powerful teaching ministry and then ended up in his hometown of Nazareth.  In Luke 4:18, Jesus began His message: “The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to preach good news to the poor …”

When we’re empowered by the Spirit, the Spirit comes upon us – and we’re able to do great things for God.  We produce.

Not long ago, I wrote an article noting that Satan seems to have disappeared from pastoral teaching in our day.  You can read it here: https://blog.restoringkingdombuilders.org/2011/06/15/whatever-happened-to-satan/

Sadly, recent experience tells me that the Holy Spirit seems to have disappeared as well.

We sing that we believe in the “Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.”  Many pastors baptize new believers in the name of the Trinity, and some use the benediction from 2 Corinthians 13:14 that mentions all three members of the Trinity together.  But we’re hearing fifty times more about the Father and the Son than the Spirit in our church services.

He’s become the lost member of the Trinity.  (Which makes me wonder: who has replaced Him?)

And no, I’m not a flaming charismatic – just someone who is trying to be a Jesus-following, biblical Christian.

My seminary professor, Dr. Robert Saucy, once made this profound statement in our Pneumatology class: “The Holy Spirit has been given to us to help us live the Christian life.”

We can’t live like Christ, or like a believer, or even live period, without the Holy Spirit.

And we certainly can’t teach the Spirit-inspired Word, or use our Spirit-given gifts, without the Spirit, either.

But from my vantage point, that’s exactly what many – if not most – Christians are trying to do today, and I’d place many pastors in that category, too.

We’re trying to live and serve as Christians without the fulness, the guidance, the power, and the anointing of the Spirit of God.

We’re serving God in the flesh rather than by the Spirit – and Paul makes clear we need to live differently: “So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.  For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature” (Galatians 5:16-17).

And maybe this is why we’re not hearing much these days about holiness, either.  Only the Spirit of God can make us holy.  (He’s the Holy Spirit, right?)  And if we’re not being controlled by Him, we’ll most certainly become unholy, at least in our daily lives.

If Jesus needed the Holy Spirit for life and ministry – and He definitely did – how much more do we need the Spirit?

What can you do to address this imbalance?

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Ever meet a Mean Christian?

My US History professor at the Christian college I attended was just plain mean.  Her voice was mean.  Her hair was mean.  Even her clothes were mean.

She didn’t like her students, and it showed.  And her tests – they were super mean!  They were multiple choice with 9 possible answers, including responses like a & b; a, b, & c; none of the above; or all of the above.

That, my friends, is proof positive she was mean.

But there was further evidence.  One day, she began class by asking a question.  No one answered.  She asked again.  No one replied.

She dismissed class in a dismissive tone, saying, “I’m not going to fill an empty milk bottle.”

I didn’t do well in her class.  It’s hard to learn from someone who doesn’t like you – especially when they don’t know you.

But Mean Christians aren’t confined to Christian schools.  They show up in churches, too.

In his book Congregational Leadership in Anxious Times, church consultant Peter Steinke makes the following observation:

“Church conflict is a growth industry.  My experience tells me that about four out of ten congregations in any five-year period face a moderate to serious conflict.  About one third of them take effective steps to recognize and address the situation.  Not only are the number of incidences rising, but also the number of people who are stubborn, deceptive, and mean.”

Mean Christians?  Isn’t that term an oxymoron?

Most of the Christians I’ve known – inside and outside of the local church – are pleasant, gracious, and kind people.  They listen to you, rejoice with you, cry with you, and pray for you.

Which makes Mean Christians stand out all the more.

Paul may have been writing to Mean Christians when he wrote Ephesians 4:31: “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.”  Paul echoes this same thought in Colossians 3:8: “But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.”

Since the New Testament is clear that Christians should be loving, why do Mean Christians exist?

First, they had mean parents.  Some people had mean modeled for them by Dad or Mom.  It’s normal behavior, especially when they’re frustrated or under stress.  These people need “spiritual” parents, spouses and friends to model unconditional love for them.  While this may help us understand Mean Christians better, it doesn’t excuse their behavior.

Second, they attend mean churches.  When I was in seminary, a cassette tape was circulating around the school of a fundamentalist preacher who condemned a classic Christian book.  It was one I had in my library – not one I consulted much – but I viewed the book as an asset, albeit a little outdated.

But this preacher viewed the book as heretical and dangerous.  He recommended that all copies of the book be burned.  (I went home and hid my copy.)  And then he got his congregation to shout with him, “Down with _____!  Down with _____ (the author’s last name)!”  I wish I still had that tape, but alas, it’s disappeared.  But the preacher lacked grace, class, and sense.  In a word, he was mean.  (I wonder how many people in the church went to him with their personal problems?)

A small minority of preachers model meanness to their people – and create Mean Christians in the process.

Third, they use meanness to get their way.  Some people have learned that if they insult you, or embarrass you in front of others, or pick on your weaknesses, they can easily control you.  They use mean words and a mean tone of voice and mean looks as a way of saying to others, “Back off and do what I say!”

A guy like this was on the church board when I first became a pastor.  He could be charming, but without warning, he’d suddenly go mean – and you had no idea why.  It was easier to let him have his way than to confront him.

But I used to think, “If only someone had confronted you about your attitude 40 years ago, maybe you wouldn’t be so mean today.”  This lead us to the final reason there are Mean Christians:

Finally, they are tolerated by nice Christians.  Christians often confuse being nice with being loving, but the two are not identical.  The great Dodger baseball manager Leo Durocher once said of Giants’ manager Mel Ott, “Nice guys finish last.”

Nice churches finish last, too.

When a Mean Christian is on the loose, what do nice Christians do?  They appease him rather than oppose him.  They say, “It isn’t my job to confront that person.  I’ll leave it to the pastor/board/staff/ushers/nursery workers.”  The Mean Christian knows this and continues his scorched earth policy … until somebody finally stands up to him or her … if they ever do.

Peter Steinke writes: “In congregations, boundary violators too often are given a long rope because others refuse to confront the trespassers.  When boundaries are inappropriately crossed and people are harmed, no one wants to name the violation.  It’s as if the disturbance of the group’s serenity is a greater offense than the viral-like behavior.  Boundary violators go unattended and suffer no consequences.”

I once knew a woman who continually said caustic things to my wife – who had no idea what to do – so I encouraged her to address the woman’s behavior when it happened.  I encouraged her to ask this question: “What do you mean by that?”

Worked like a charm.

Just like Jesus asked questions of His enemies, I encourage you to ask a question the next time a Mean Christian lays into you or someone else.  Pause for a moment, and in a calm manner, ask:

Why did you use that tone?

Why are you trying to hurt me?

Why are you so angry?

We have to be careful, though … because there’s a Mean Christian inside each one of us, too.

“Beware lest, in fighting a dragon, you become a dragon.”

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Five years ago, my daughter Sarah and I went to the 11:30 am Sunday service at St. Giles Cathedral in Edinburgh, Scotland.  The great Scottish Reformer John Knox preached there and is buried underneath Parking Space 23 behind the church.

St. Giles Cathedral, Edinburgh, Scotland

                     

When we arrived that morning, rain was pouring down.  We settled into seats next to the heater on the right side – only it wasn’t working.  (After a few moments, a large puddle of water formed beneath my chair.)  Because I was a mess, I chose to visit the men’s room, which was down the back stairs – only I had to walk through the choir to get there.  (When I came out, I had to walk through them again.)

The service began with a choir anthem – in Latin.  After some festivities, it was time for the message.  The speaker was one of the chaplains for the Queen of England, and this was his regular gig.

I’ll never forget his message.  He lambasted the congregation for the decline in attendance over the years – from 1,400 to 600, as I recall.  He spoke all of 10 minutes.

I can tell you why people weren’t coming: busted heater, poor access to the restrooms, singing in a dead language, and a preacher who blamed the people who showed up for the church’s decline!

The topic of church attendance is touchy, isn’t it?

Let me make four brief points about numbers in churches:

First, numbers require context.  Jesus talked about rocky ground and good soil in the Parable of the Sower (Matthew 13:3-8).  Some communities are fertile ground for the gospel, like Phoenix (where there are large churches everywhere) and Orange County (where spiritual and political values match).  Other communities represent stony ground, like New England (with its old buildings and liberal theology) and the San Francisco Bay Area (full of hostile atheists and agnostics).

In Phoenix, it’s common for a church to own a 5-acre campus with 500 people attending.  In the Bay Area, that’s uncommon.

Every church is unique.  There is no one-size-fits-all pastor or church.  What works in one place doesn’t work in another.  So it’s hard to compare churches – and often difficult to compare their statistics as well.

Please remember that.

Second, numbers can become idols.  Ask some pastors how their church is doing and they’ll say, “Our numbers are up 22% over last year at this time – and our giving is keeping pace.  We’re doing great!”

But how did their churches grow?  Through a renewed emphasis on evangelism?  Through an expansion of small groups for seekers?  Or was it by injecting secular methods into the church?  Or by receiving a flood of new people from the church that split down the road?

Pastors feel tremendous pressure to keep numbers going north.  And in the process, stats can become way too important.  If someone’s life was changed but attendance was down 15% from the previous Sunday, does that mean the pastor is a failure?  Or if God didn’t show up in the service but the giving was 31% better than two weeks ago, is that all that matters?

If a pastor thinks he’s a success when the stats are up, and a failure when the stats are down, it may be that numbers have become an idol.  Most pastors continually struggle with this issue.

Third, numbers are impossible to control.  My wife and I once held a small group in our home.  15 people signed up.  The topic was interesting.  We always had refreshments.  There was great chemistry among group members.

And we always contacted people in advance to remind them about our next gathering.

One night, we had 14.  Another night, we had 3.  Think I could control the attendance?

As a pastor, sometimes I’d go to church on Sunday morning and think, “This topic may seem irrelevant, so I’m not expecting a big crowd.”  And the place would be packed.  Other times, I’d think, “I can’t wait to get to church today because I anticipate great attendance.”  And I’d get up to preach and stare at empty chairs.

I delude myself – and even play God – when I think I make things grow.

I take comfort in Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 3:6: “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.”  Only secularists believe that man makes things grow.  Jesus’ followers know that only the Father produces growth.

Finally, numbers alone cannot measure success.  I believe that success for a believer – including a pastor – is defined not by numbers, but by attempting and completing divine assignments.

When Jesus told the multitudes that they needed to “eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood” (John 6:53), we’re told that “many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him” (John 6:66).  By today’s standards, Jesus was a failure.

And yet the night before He died, He told His Father, “I have brought you glory on earth by completing the work you gave me to do” (John 17:4).  If numbers are everything, why didn’t Jesus submit His stats at that moment?  Instead, He measured success by doing God’s will.

He may have looked like a failure in secular eyes, but was a total success in His Father’s eyes.

I wish Christians could set aside the success measurements of the business world (bodies, bucks, and bricks) and return to biblical standards – but the business model has become so ingrained in us that I don’t know if we can.

Think we can do it?  Do we want to?

In Mark 4:26, Jesus told His disciples:

“This is what the kingdom of God is like.  A man scatters seed on the ground.  Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how.”

Did you catch that?  “He does not know how” the seed grew.  While it’s our job to scatter seed, it’s God’s job to make things grow.

Let us resolve never to reverse those roles.

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Nearly 20 years ago, I was invited to meet with a group of pastors for an all-day meeting at a mountain cabin.  I felt privileged to be included and was looking forward to our time with great anticipation … until the group leader asked this question:

“How did Easter go at your church?”

One by one, the pastors talked about the number of people who came out for Easter services.  We didn’t hear much about the biblical passages the pastors used, or the music that was sung, or the way the Spirit moved.

No, every pastor present talked about the number of people who showed up for Easter services.

All except one, that is.  Out of the dozen or so men gathered around a table, nobody asked me how many people showed up for our Easter service – and I didn’t volunteer the number.

I’ve never told anyone – until now.  It was 70.

Years later, I’d be the pastor of a church that had ten times that amount on Easter Sunday, but so what?

While numbers at a church do tell a story, they never tell the whole story.

Why are evangelical Christians so obsessed with numbers?

For starters, numbers are a way to measure a church’s progress.  If your church had 225 people in attendance a year ago, and you have 270 today, you’re reaching more people for Jesus.  And on the surface, that’s good.

Conversely, if you have 270 today, but 183 a year from now, that doesn’t look so great.

Ten years ago, Dr. Archibald Hart told our “Pastor’s Personal Life” class at Fuller Seminary that the church growth movement was dead.  That was a surprising statement to hear coming from a Fuller leader because the church growth movement originated there.  Dr. Hart told our class that the emphasis now was on church health, not church growth.

And that seems like a healthier emphasis to me.  The New Testament epistles never mention specific attendance numbers.  Paul doesn’t commend the church at Philippi for growing 23% in the past year.  John doesn’t applaud his readers for growing their church from 100 to 150 over the previous six months.  And in Revelation 2-3, when Jesus addresses the seven churches of Asia Minor, He never once mentions numbers.  The emphasis of the New Testament is on spiritual qualities like faith, hope, and love.  (Read the first few verses of Paul’s epistles and notice how many times he mentions those terms.)

The biblical implication is that a healthy church is doing its job and will have some impact on the surrounding culture.

Thank God, we sometimes hear people say, “That’s a really loving church” or “Those people exercise great faith.”  But it’s easier to measure cold hard numbers than spiritual intangibles, isn’t it?

Next, numbers are a way to measure a pastor’s worth.  Is this a good line for a major league baseball outfielder (.227, 3, 14)?  No, it’s not.  It means his batting average is .227, he’s only hit 3 home runs, and he’s knocked in a mere 14 runs.  He may be a great outfielder with speed, but unless he can raise his offensive stats, he won’t be in the majors very long.

In our day, pastors are often measured by a single line as well, like this one: (17, 847, 23).  This pastor has 17 staff members, an average weekly attendance of 847, and an average weekly offering of $23,000.  In some areas, those are fantastic numbers.  In others, they’re average.

The pastor could be a godly man and a great husband and father.  He could be a phenomenal preacher and raise the dead with his prayers.  Doesn’t matter.  In the Christian world, those statistics summarize his worth.  Every pastor knows this, and most find they cannot fight the system.  So every week, they live and die by their stats.

When summer hits, the numbers go down, especially in more affluent communities.  Sometime during the fall, they go back up.  In December, the numbers trend downward as people stay home due to illness or travel for the holidays.  In the spring, the numbers rise again because people feel better and are not traveling.

You can track a pastor’s moods by the seasons.

Pastors are aware they cannot fully control these numbers, but that doesn’t keep them from trying.  On Monday mornings, they are eager to know “how many we had yesterday” and “what the offering was.”  If the attendance and offering were above average, the pastor feels good.  But if the attendance and offering are poor for a few weeks in a row, the pastor wonders if his tenure in that church is over.

I fought the “numbers game” for years, believing they are just one way to measure a pastor’s worth, but not the only way – but evangelicals continue to live and die by them.  Every year, denominations request various numbers from their churches.  They don’t ask who got saved – they want to know how many were baptized (it’s more easily quantifiable).  They don’t ask if God did any miracles – they want to know how much the church gave to missions.

If you want to know how a particular pastor or church is doing, you just open up the denominational annual and look.  It’s all there on one line in black and white.  And for many, those numbers define that pastor’s true worth.

In addition, numbers are a way to gain credibility with the culture.  If I’m telling a co-worker about Jesus, and I attend a church of 50 people, I might feel embarrassed to invite her to my church.  But if I attend a church of 5,000, I feel a sense of pride.  Poor stats seem to reflect poorly on the gospel, while large ones seem to give it more weight.

This is one reason why large churches are growing and smaller churches are shrinking.

For years, I assumed that everybody in the churches I pastored viewed numbers the way I did.  If we had a poor Sunday statistically, I believed it was a frontal lobe issue for others as well.

But it wasn’t.  People didn’t come to pad the stats.

Instead, they came to meet God.  They came to learn Scripture.  They came to fellowship with friends.

In fact, their value systems were often more spiritually-oriented than those of their pastor!

I’ll have more to say about the “numbers game” next time.

How do you feel about church statistics?

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When I was at Fuller Seminary a few years ago, I sat under a well-known professor who is also a prolific author.  My guess is that he was in his late sixties when I took the class.

This Christian leader did not attend a traditional church, even though he’s been identified with a specific denomination nearly his whole life.

Instead, he attended a house church of about 35 people on Sunday evenings.

When I first heard him mention this, I thought he was being a bit rebellious.  Weren’t there scores of already-existing churches within a few minutes’ drive of his home?  Couldn’t they benefit from his worldwide teaching ministry?

At the time, I was probably at the apex of my own pastoral ministry.  In fact, our church was ready to start construction on a new worship center.

Fast forward ahead a few years and matters are very different.

In my last article, I wondered if my wife and I have outgrown the local church.  I certainly hope not.  We need to continue to grow spiritually.  We need to hear the Word of God preached.  We need to use our spiritual gifts.  We need to be a part of something bigger than ourselves.

As Joanna Hogg of the Irish group Iona sings in their song “Dancing on the Wall”: “I am part of something that is going to change things for the better.”

We’ll always be a part of the kingdom of God.  And we’ll always be members of the Church Universal.  But what about the local church?

Maybe it’s just me, but it seems that my wife and I have entered that season in our lives when some Christians decide to become part-time churchgoers rather than full-time ones.

Let me share two more concerns about the churches I’ve been visiting (the first three were presented in my last post):

Fourth, there are fewer invitations to receive Christ.  I grew up in churches where the pastor gave an altar call at every service.  He invited unbelievers to receive Christ by asking them to leave their seat and walk to the front of the worship center.  Too many pastors back then used manipulative tactics to force people to “walk the aisle” and implied they couldn’t be saved unless they did.  Although this practice is never mentioned in the New Testament, it was a third sacrament in many churches until baby boomers became pastors.  I was so alarmed at what I saw in some churches that I wrote my thesis in seminary on this practice.

But now the pendulum seems to have swung in the other direction.  I honestly cannot remember the last time I was in a church service and a pastor invited unbelievers to pray and receive Christ.

In the church we’ve been attending, many people are being converted, and although we haven’t gone to the membership class, my guess is that that’s the place where people are being won to Christ.

But what about those who choose not to attend the class?

Pastors have differing views on this issue.  A decreasing number of pastors invite unbelievers to receive Christ after every message.  Some rarely if ever do.  In my case, I did so if (a) the passage called for it, or (b) the Holy Spirit prompted me to do so.

Decades after my own conversion, I’m still thrilled when I hear the gospel preached in a biblical and relevant way.  But I’m hearing it preached less and less.

What have you been noticing along this line?

Finally, too many churches act like they constitute the kingdom of God.  Six months after arriving in the Valley of the Sun (it’s only 104 degrees here today), I visited with a denominational executive.  I asked him if there was any kind of annual convention or larger meeting of Christians in the greater Phoenix area, and he told me he didn’t know of any.  (When I was a pastor in Silicon Valley, for example, the National Association of Evangelicals sponsored a monthly luncheon for pastors.)  This leader told me that Phoenix has a Wild West mentality about it and that it tends to be “every man for himself” here.

And maybe “every church for itself” as well.

I’m a local Christian but a global Christian, too.  I like knowing that there are churches and Christians in Western Europe and Eastern Africa as well as in California and Texas.

But it seems to me that more and more church leaders aren’t promoting much about Jesus’ worldwide kingdom outside the four walls of their own buildings.  In the process, it’s easy for a church to give off the impression that “we are the kingdom of God” rather than “we are just a part of the kingdom of God.”

There are exceptions to this, of course, but this is the trend I’ve been seeing.

My favorite verse about the church is Ephesians 5:25 where Paul tells us that “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her …”  If Jesus loves the church, then I need to love her as well.  And if Jesus gave His life for His people, I need to do the same.

But Paul is talking in context about the Church Universal, not necessarily a local church.

I agree with Bill Hybels that “the Church is the hope of the world.”

But how does that play out in the 21st century?  Must we all attend services in a church building in our community?  If not, is a house church a legitimate biblical expression of the church in our culture?

And what if we choose not to participate in a local church at all?  (Yes, I know about Hebrews 10:24-25!)

I’m not trying to be a heretic, but I am trying to be provocative.

What do you think about the future of the local church where you live?

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When I was a young man in my twenties and thirties, I met a fair number of professing Christians who regularly missed worship services – either at our church or at the one they attended.  They seemed to have a cavalier attitude about being absent, an attitude that I as a pastor could not relate to.

After all, church was my life.

While I knew that attending church services could not gain salvation for anyone, I believed that it was essential for spiritual growth – and I still do.

But lately, I’ve been wondering.

I’ve attended services at about 25 different churches over the past 18 months, so my observations aren’t based upon going to a mere handful.  I’ve been to small, medium-sized, and large churches, as well as a few mega-churches.

Since growing, cutting-edge churches tend to follow trends, there’s a lot of sameness in our churches today, even though evangelical churches don’t use a common liturgy.

But attending worship is starting to become less meaningful for me, and I’m wondering if I’m all alone on this one.

Let me make some observations about my experiences:

First, the music has been uniformly good.  Most of the churches I’ve attended have bands, and they know what they’re doing.  Some play soft, others play loud.  They all play contemporary praise music, and most mix in a hymn or two.  And I don’t think any band has played longer than 15 minutes, or 4 songs.  In addition, the state of musicianship in our churches has vastly improved over the past decade.

However … too many of the lyrics contain Christian cliches.  What if we declared a moratorium on using words like “praise” and “worship” and “bow” and “adore” and insisted that Christian songwriters quit cranking out songs like they were working for Tin Pan Alley?

Back in the early 1970s, Lovesong, the original Christian rock group, put these lyrics on its pioneer album:

Sing unto the heavens with a brand new song

The one that we’ve been hearing’s been a hit too long

The lyrics sound confused as if they don’t belong

So sing unto the Lord and sing with feeling

I’m starting to get to the point where I’m content to miss the first few minutes of the worship time, and I’ve never felt that way before.  Is it just me, or is there an increasing sameness about worship music today?

Second, the prayers are so short they’re practically meaningless.  In my humble opinion, they sound perfunctory.  To quote Keith Green out of context, “no one hurts, no one aches, no one even sheds one tear.”  I’m non-charismatic in my approach to worship, but the prayers I’ve been hearing lately have one thing in common: let’s get through this prayer quickly so we can say we prayed … and move on to the good stuff.

But in the process, we don’t really touch heaven, and heaven doesn’t really touch us.

Many pastors operate by the philosophy, “When in doubt, pray.”  At one church my wife and I attended recently, the pastor prayed six or seven times during the service – and it seemed a bit much.  But I’m longing for one meaningful time of prayer during the service so we can know we touched the face of God.

Sometimes, the pastor will offer that prayer – and I love to hear a pastor’s heart poured out for his congregation.  Other times, someone else might encourage people to pray silently right where they’re seated.

But let’s do some planning so that prayers aren’t just whizzing by us during a service.

We can pray a little longer, a little more intensely, and much, much better.

Amen?

Third, I long to hear a pastor teach from one passage of Scripture.  I’ve heard messages from Genesis 1, Exodus 1, Joshua 4, Nehemiah 13, Song of Solomon, Luke 22, John 10, Acts 1, and Acts 28 (among other passages) – but I’ve mostly heard topical messages.  (And I can’t recall one message from any of the epistles.)  While I like topical messages – and usually preached a high percentage of them myself – I’m concerned about the lack of biblical ignorance among Christians today.

We don’t seem to know our Bibles anymore.

Let me use the church we’ve been attending as an example.  The pastor does very little exposition of Scripture.  Instead, he preaches topically, referring to and quoting key verses.  There’s a place for that, and he does a great job.  But if you want to study a biblical passage or book, where in the church can you do that anymore?

Can you do it in small groups?  The groups at our church are designed around discussing the pastor’s message from the week before.

Can you do it in Bible classes?  The only Bible classes that exist are unadvertised.

The church encourages us to read our Bibles through in a year – a very good thing to do – but where in the church can people learn how to interpret and study Scripture for themselves?

Instead, it’s done for us by a professional.

Maybe I’m missing something, but it seems as if Protestant churches are starting to go Roman Catholic: only the priest is qualified to interpret the Bible.

What do you think about what I’ve shared?

I’ll share my final few observations next time.

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The following post is meant to be interactive.  Along the way, I have included some questions that I’d like to have you answer for your own benefit.  Compare your responses to what actually happened in the story.  Thanks!

Yesterday I read a true story about a church that faced a terrible situation.  The story comes from church consultant Peter Steinke’s book Congregational Leadership in Anxious Times.  I do not wish for anyone to be upset by this story, so please know ahead of time that the story turns out favorably for all.

Here’s what happened:

A young girl in a church accused her pastor of molestation.  Two leaders, Tom and Diane, met privately with the pastor to notify him of the charge.  By state law, they had to report the charge to a governmental agency.

The pastor shook his head and quietly responded, “I have never touched her.  Never.”

1.  Which option would you recommend for the pastor if you were Tom or Diane?

  • Stay and fight the charge.
  • Take a leave of absence.
  • Resign immediately.
  • Hire an attorney.

Which option did you select?

Tom and Diane recommended that the pastor take a leave of absence.

However, the pastor eventually decided against that option because he felt it indicated guilt.  He told the leaders, “I need to clear my name, but I don’t want to drag the church through this for months.”

Tom and Diane knew they had to inform the congregation of the charge, and when they did, a group of members thought the pastor should resign.  The leaders of the church were warned that most cases like this one are based in fact.

2.  What should the leaders do now?

  • Insist that the pastor stay and fight.
  • Encourage him to take a leave of absence.
  • Recommend that the pastor resign.
  • Let the process play itself out.

Which option did you select?

The leaders decided to let the process of justice go forward and stand behind their pastor until the legal system made the next move.

The leaders also decided that they would meet every week for prayer followed by a sharing time where they would openly discuss what they were thinking.

Tom shared that he believed the pastor was innocent.

Diane wondered how stable the girl was based upon the fact that her parents had gone through a terrible divorce two years earlier but had now jointly hired a lawyer.

Another admitted that she was being pressured by other members to withdraw her support for the pastor.

The pastor told the leaders that he would hold no resentment if anyone felt compelled to withdraw their support from him.

One leader chose to resign.

Marie, another leader, stood solidly behind the pastor because she had been falsely accused of something at her own workplace.

A few anxious leaders turned against the pastor and condemned him.

3.  If you attended those weekly meetings, what would you as a leader do now?

  • Insist the pastor stay and fight.
  • Encourage him to take a leave of absence.
  • Recommend that he resign.
  • Let the justice process run its course.

Which option would you select at this point?

The leaders chose the last option once again.

Fourteen weeks later, the charges against the pastor were suddenly dropped.

4.  What should Tom and Diane do now?

  • Verbally berate every person who doubted the pastor’s innocence.
  • Encourage all the doubters to return to the church.
  • Shame those who didn’t stand with the pastor.
  • Just turn the page and move on.

Which option did the leaders select?

They decided to personally contact anyone who doubted the pastor (or the leaders) and welcome them to return to the church – no questions asked.

5.  What did the leaders of this church do that was so unique?

  • They stood behind their pastor whether he was innocent or guilty.
  • They ignored almost everything the congregation told them.
  • They waited for the truth to come out before making a judgment.
  • They took the easy way out.

Which option did you go with?

The third statement best reflects the mindset of this church’s leaders: they chose to let the justice system take its course before deciding the pastor’s future.

According to Steinke, many people facing these conditions become what psychologists call “cognitive misers.”  They instinctively draw either/or conclusions: either the pastor is innocent or he’s guilty.  Either the pastor is good or he is bad.

But the leaders of this church are to be commended for not letting anxiety make their decision for them.  When certain people were calling for the pastor’s resignation – and even staying home from services until he left – the leaders stuck to their original decision and let the legal system do its work.

The pastor’s job, career, and reputation were all saved.

The church’s reputation and future were preserved.

The decision of the leaders was vindicated.

Why?  Because the leaders chose to make their decision based on truth rather than (a) unity, (b) politics, (c) groupthink, or (d) anxiety.

Let me quote Steinke on this issue fully:

“Nowhere in the Bible is tranquillity preferred to truth or harmony to justice.  Certainly reconciliation is the goal of the gospel, yet seldom is reconciliation an immediate result.  If people believe the Holy Spirit is directing the congregation into the truth, wouldn’t this alone encourage Christians who have differing notions to grapple with issues respectfully, lovingly, and responsively?  If potent issues are avoided because they might divide the community, what type of witness is the congregation to the pursuit of truth?”

In other words, the church of Jesus Christ does not crucify its leaders just because someone makes an accusation against them.

Think with me: if unity is more important than truth, then Jesus deserved to be crucified, didn’t He?

The accusations against Jesus caused great distress for Pilate, resulting in turmoil for his wife and animosity between Pilate and the Passover mob.

The Jewish authorities had to resort to loud and vociferous accusations to force Pilate to act.

The women around the cross wept uncontrollably.

The disciples of Jesus all ran off and deserted Him in His hour of need (except John).

Jesus’ countrymen engaged in mocking and taunting while witnessing His execution.

Who caused Pilate, the Jewish authorities, the women, the disciples, and the Jewish people to become angry and upset and depressed?

It was JESUS!  And since He disrupted the unity of His nation, He needed to go, right?

This is the prevailing view among many denominational leaders today.  If a pastor is accused of wrongdoing, and some people in the church become upset, then the pastor is usually advised to resign to preserve church unity, even before people fully know the truth – and even if the pastor is totally innocent.

In fact, there are forces at work in such situations that don’t want the truth to come out.

That is … if unity is more important than truth.

But if the charges against Jesus – blasphemy against the Jewish law and sedition against the Roman law – were false and trumped up, then Jesus should have gone free even if His release caused disunity in Jerusalem.

The point of Steinke’s story is that leaders – including pastors – need to remain calm during turbulent times in a church.  There are always anxious people who push the leaders to overreact to relieve them of their own anxiety.

If Pilate hadn’t overreacted … if the mob hadn’t … if Jesus’ disciples hadn’t … would Jesus still have been crucified?

Divinely speaking: yes.  It was the only way He could pay for our sins.

Humanly speaking: no.  What a travesty of justice!

20 centuries later, Jesus’ followers can do a better job of handling nightmarish accusations against pastors.

Instead of becoming anxious, they can pray for a calm and peaceful spirit.

Instead of making quick decisions, they can make deliberate ones.

Instead of aiming for destruction, they can aim for redemption.

Instead of holding up unity as the church’s primary value, truth should be viewed that way.

If the pastor in this story had been guilty of a crime, then the leaders would have had to agree on a different course of action.  Sadly, these things do happen in our day, even in churches.

But in this case, the leaders stood strong and did not let the anxiety of others – or their own – determine the destiny of their pastor and church.

They opted for truth instead, and the truth will set you – and everyone else – free.

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Many years ago, I saw an ad in a Christian publication promoting a product I found offensive.  A certain televangelist was inviting churches to buy satellite equipment so they could beam the messages from his church into their worship services.  The idea behind the ad was that if a church really wanted to grow, then its people needed to listen to this single gifted man.

The ad outraged me.  This televangelist came from the South, while our church was in the West.  He came from a charismatic church, while ours was non-charismatic.  He often used a condemning tone, while I tried to speak with grace.  He did not know our people, but I did.  And he was not a biblical expositor, while that’s what I loved doing most.

How dare he presume that every church in America needed to hear him preach every week rather than their own pastor!

I hope that few churches signed up for this offer.  Not long after that ad came out, that televangelist engaged in some extracurricular activities that resulted in the satellite dishes being turned off – for good.

While that was an extreme case, the Christian world seems to be increasingly listening to fewer and fewer biblical teachers.

Many churches now have only one teacher in the entire congregation: the pastor.  Since most churches don’t offer adult classes or Sunday evening services or midweek worship anymore, the pastor becomes the lone communicator of biblical truth by default – or design.

Even if a church has small groups, leaders are usually instructed to facilitate discussion rather than teach in any meaningful way.  And increasingly, that discussion is about the pastor’s message from the week before.  So even gifted teachers who lead such groups aren’t supposed to teach anything but let everyone talk.

There are pros and cons to this new approach.

For starters, it helps some preachers lead a more balanced life.  I once knew the pastor of a megachurch who told me he studied 50 hours every week.  (You read that right.)  He studied 15 hours for the Sunday morning service, 15 hours for the Sunday evening service, and 20 hours for the Wednesday night prayer meeting.

Why so long for the Wednesday night service?  Because he never knew who might show up to hear him, and he wanted to be accurate in his teaching.  (John MacArthur showed up a few times unannounced.)

Forgive me, but that’s insane, if not self-destructive.  In fact, that pastor died less than two years after he shared that information with me.  Since studying is a sedentary habit, the lack of bodily movement may have done him in.

So that’s one extreme: the pastor is the primary teacher in the church and teaches all the time except when he’s on vacation.

We now have another extreme which I believe is much more healthy: the pastor shares the teaching role with several other gifted communicators.  Each teacher may teach for an entire series and then take the next one or two off, or each teacher might be assigned a different Sunday during the same series.

The advantages are enormous.  The congregation gets to hear from several gifted teachers.  The pastors have plenty of time to prepare their messages.  And messages can be divided up by specialties.  It can be difficult listening to the same voice all the time, but if you hear two or more voices, it’s much easier to take.

The downside, of course, is that most churches can only afford one gifted teacher, not three or four.  And the more gifted someone is, the more often they want to speak.

Now a few megachurches are planting satellite churches in outlying areas and sending a live feed of the message from the mother church into those venues.  The church we’ve been attending for the past year plans to do this all over the Phoenix area and has already started a satellite campus in the area where we used to live.

When they did this, they absorbed another megachurch.  The pastor from the megachurch now teaches periodically at the mother megachurch.  While he now speaks to more people, he also speaks less often.

It seems to me that technology is leading to a social Darwinism in the Christian community.  For example, what would happen in your church if Rick Warren or Mark Driscoll decided to open up a satellite campus in your area?  Would people from your church flock to the satellite campus and desert your church and pastor?  (By the way, I know an area where both Warren and Driscoll are planning on opening satellite campuses.)

Is this about reaching more people, trying to amass the most followers, increasing revenue streams, or all of the above?

Sometimes it feels like there are only going to be ten preachers left in the entire US: Warren, Hybels, Driscoll, Lucado, Osteen, both Stanleys, Piper, Beth Moore, and a few others.  There will be Warren churches, Lucado churches, and Piper churches.  The music will be different in each locale, but instead of being known by denominational labels or movements, a church will be known by the name of the teacher it beams in on satellite.

Isn’t there a biblical prophecy about this phenomenon somewhere?  Does Harold Camping have any insight about this?

I have five concerns about this particular trend:

First, what happens when a popular teacher veers off course theologically?  If thousands of people have to choose between the teachings of Paul the apostle or their favorite Christian communicator, who will they choose?  There is a Gen X preacher who is clearly off the rails theologically, and I know someone who thinks he’s great.  How much effort should I expend in trying to convince him otherwise?

Second, what happens if a famous teacher falls morally?  Twenty years ago, some of America’s best-known Christian leaders were involved in sexual scandals.  It was a hard time to be the pastor of any church.  I remember one woman (who did not attend our church) who kept calling and implying that all these guys were crooks.  Although there have been fewer scandals in recent years (thank God!), when we farm out our teaching to a chosen few, those teachers seem to represent all of Christianity to many people.  And if a few of them go down, it impacts all of us.

Third, what happens to smaller and medium-sized churches?  Back in the 1990s, Christian pollster George Barna predicted that the days were coming when most churches in America would be either small or large and that medium-sized churches would soon become extinct.  I’m not worried about the satellite churches winning lost people to Christ.  There are enough unbelievers out there for everybody.  Instead, I’m concerned about believers in smaller churches who have struggled for years to make their church go and finally leave it to join a satellite church.  While the jury is out on this approach, I hope we’ll see the results of surveys on this trend soon and be able to adjust accordingly.

Fourth, why are we letting a few people do all our thinking for us?  I once heard a new pastor in Silicon Valley tell a group of pastors that whenever he started preparing for a message, he first read all the commentators and then added his own thoughts.  My immediate response was, “Why aren’t you letting God speak directly to you first?”  Like many pastors, whenever I selected a passage to preach on, I first did all my own work and then consulted with the commentators to check my conclusions.

I didn’t want to preach a message that God gave to Chuck Swindoll or Bill Hybels: I wanted to bring a message to our people that God had given me.  Since many of these satellite churches hire pastors to be on premises while the megachurch pastor is speaking on satellite, how do they feel about having their teaching gifts shelved?

We need tens of thousands of pastors all over the world who don’t buy sermons from Rick Warren but who let God’s Spirit speak directly to them through His written Word.

Finally, what happens to rookie preachers?  I preached my first sermon at 19 years of age in a Sunday night service at my home church.  While it wasn’t very good, my church let me teach many more times because I told them I had been called by God to preach.  There were a lot of venues back then for someone who was learning to preach: Sunday School classes, the Sunday evening service, the midweek service, as well as the local rescue mission.

But where does a preacher learn to teach today?

I have always believed that if someone is called by God to preach, they should preach first in front of their home church.  But the larger your home church is, the less likely that is to happen.

Before I became a pastor at age 27, I had preached in a church setting about 50 times.  There were a lot of things I had to learn – and a few I had to unlearn.

But with increasingly fewer opportunities, where can a young preacher learn to develop their gift?

What are you seeing?  I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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