It is possible to read the New Testament dozens of times and yet miss the clear meaning of certain verses.
For years, I missed these two:
“Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him; for God’s temple is sacred, and you are that temple.”
These words of Paul from 1 Corinthians 3:16-17 sound like they come from the Old Testament: “If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him.”
What is God’s temple in this context?
God’s temple is a local church. (The terms “you yourselves” and “you” in verse 16 are both plural.)
What’s Paul saying?
That anyone … believer or unbeliever … who destroys a local church will be destroyed by God Himself. (Sounds like a guarantee, doesn’t it?)
Wow.
God’s Spirit lives among His people. God’s church is sacred.
Therefore, if an individual or a group destroys a local church, God promises to destroy them.
How many times can you recall hearing anyone preach this text?
I’m not aware that I’ve ever heard any preacher or teacher highlight or explain these verses … but they are there all the same.
What’s the most common way of destroying a congregation?
That’s easy: attack the pastor until he’s forced to resign. Gary Pinion writes in his book Crushed: The Perilous Side of Ministry:
“Spiritual leaders are prime targets in these last days. The Bible tells us that if you strike a shepherd, the sheep will scatter. Entire congregations can be wiped out with a single blow to one shepherd. For this reason they are the number one public enemy on Satan’s hit list…. Corresponding with this gigantic loss of shepherds, new studies are also providing growing evidence of a great loss of churches. A study in Exit Interviews by Hendricks shows the appalling results of the loss of ministers: there are now 53,000 people leaving churches weekly who are not coming back. George Barna’s research sadly declares that we are losing one percent of our churches in America every year, as godly warriors depart from the battle arena. As shepherds leave, sheep leave.”
Pinion then quotes a woman whose congregational experienced major conflict:
“The conflict resulted in the pastor being forced to leave. Because of this decision, the people who supported the pastor left the church. The church attendance was reduced to half, relationships were severed, weekly income was drastically cut, and various ministries in the church were forced to disband. The church became known in the community as a place of power struggles, fighting and discontent. I could go on and on.”
The latest statistic I’ve run across is that 4,000 churches close down every year in the United States.
Let’s acknowledge that a small percentage of pastors may contribute to the destruction of a church through domination, intimidation, manipulation, or retribution. Some pastors have behaved so badly that they have almost singlehandedly wiped out a church they’ve pastored.
But the great majority of the time, churches are destroyed by lay powerbrokers who want to limit their pastor’s authority so they can expand their own influence and that of their friends.
If I disagreed with something my pastor was doing or saying, I would make an appointment and speak to him lovingly and directly.
If he didn’t agree with me, I would either stay and support him or leave the church … without taking anybody with me. (Division in a church begins when people pass on their personal complaints to others.)
Based on the entire tenor of the New Testament … and specifically 1 Corinthians 3:16-17 … I would never want to do anything to destroy a church that Jesus is building in a particular community.
But if I found out that I had contributed to a church’s destruction, I would repent immediately … or else be wondering constantly when God was going to take me out.
These verses don’t specify how God chooses to destroy a church destroyer. His wrath could be exhibited in this life (primarily for a believer) or in the next life (possibly for an unbeliever).
But however God decides to deal with someone, He has an infinite number of punishments at His disposal.
If you’re a lay leader in a church … maybe a board member, or a deacon, or a ministry team leader … I beg you: be very, very careful how you treat and speak of your pastor.
Pastors are not infallible. They make mistakes. And when they mess up, they need to be graciously and truthfully confronted.
But you should always aim for their restoration and redemption, never their punishment and destruction.
Remember Paul’s phrase: “If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him.”
Sounds scary, doesn’t it?
That’s exactly how God intended for it to sound.









Churches Need Healthy Immune Systems
Posted in Church Conflict, Church Health and Conflict, Conflict with Church Antagonists, Fighting Evil, Please Comment!, tagged church immune system, protecting pastors, protecting the body of Christ on September 16, 2014| Leave a Comment »
Someone recently sent me a notice stating that a church volunteer who worked with youth had been arrested for having an inappropriate sexual relationship with a minor.
The person who sent me the notice knows both the church and the volunteer and said that a key staff member had been warned about this particular volunteer but chose to take no action.
Every church deals with potential intruders that violate healthy boundaries. In his book Congregational Leadership in Anxious Times, Peter Steinke lists the following common boundary violations in churches:
*accusing someone without reasonable cause or without initially talking to the accused
*disregarding guidelines, policies, and procedures
*humiliating people publicly or privately
*using verbal pressure to intimidate
*holding others hostage by threats or demands
*enlisting others to attend secret meetings
*labeling others with emotionally-packed words
*speaking on behalf of others, as if they know what the other is thinking
*telling different accounts or sharing different information, depending upon the hearers
*attaching fear to issues to control others
These behavioral “viruses” are constantly trying to invade congregations, which is why every church needs a strong immune system.
Steinke writes:
“Everyone’s body is equipped with proof of identity – that is, cells in our body have the same chemical combinations. It’s as if they wear identical costumes. Viruses also have a distinct chemical costume. The immune system keeps cells that are bona fide residents separate from illegal aliens. In immunology terminology, the immune system learns to distinguish ‘self’ from ‘nonself.’ Once an intruder is spotted, the immune system compares it against the rogues’ gallery of known pathogens. If tipped off by resemblances, the immune system arrests and eliminates the intruder. Sorting out self from nonself, the immune system says: ‘Red blood cells, good guys. Skin cells, part of us. Okay. Virus … no good. Toe. Keep.'”
Steinke says that just as we find intruders in the human body, so we find intruders in churches:
“Lacking self-regulation, these individuals may act where they have no authority, say things that have no ground in truth, complain to everyone else except those who can do something about the situation, or place themselves in a position to control the nomination process.”
Steinke then compares the body’s immune system to immune systems in churches. Usually the immune system is composed of a few key leaders who:
*serve as sentinels and provide the frontline of defense.
*sense when something is out of balance or troubling.
*see things firsthand and possess knowledge not widely known.
*realize that if something isn’t done, the church could pay a heavy price.
*constitute the “first responders” and sometimes must work hard for others to believe them.
After 36 years in church ministry, I’ve discovered that a congregation’s immune system may reside inside:
*the pastor.
This is especially true when a church is small.
During my first nine years as a pastor, when the church body was invaded by a violator, I was usually the one who initially addressed the issue and sought the help of other leaders. While I didn’t like dealing with invaders, I knew what could happen if someone in authority failed to act as an immune system.
Most pastors cannot function as an immune system by themselves, but they may be the only ones who can point out the violations and the dangers of not acting.
*the official church board.
Most churches are as healthy as their boards.
In one church I pastored, the chairman and I made joint decisions on how to handle intrusions, and the church stayed healthy for years.
In another church I pastored, the chairman didn’t work with me. One time, we had an inappropriate intrusion into our body, and I asked the chairman to write a letter and deal with the issue. The letter he wrote was so incoherent that it wasn’t sent … and the body quickly became ill.
*a staff member.
I know a megachurch where a single staff member serves as the immune system for the entire staff. He stays in touch with everyone … investigates any charges against staff members … and has earned the authority to make decisions regarding staff. Not surprisingly, he’s been the pastor’s right-hand man for years.
*an individual of great wisdom and stature.
If someone had asked me during my last pastorate where the church’s immune system was located, I would have said, “The church board.” And for much of my time there, that’s where the immune system was located.
But it took me a long time to realize that one individual in particular (a former board member I’ll call Robert) really activated the immune system.
One time, I was having trouble with a staff member who was resisting making changes we had both agreed upon. The staff member was engaged in passive-aggressive behavior and modeling resistance. It looked like an invasion of the body was imminent.
I called upon Robert, and we worked together to bring the body back to health. But I couldn’t have done it alone … and he probably could have done it by himself!
But when Robert and his wife moved away, he took the church’s immune system with him, and the body was ripe for invasion.
It’s not any fun being a key part of a church’s immune system. Dealing with invasions of the body is a behind the scenes, thankless task.
But every healthy church has a healthy immune system, usually composed of several individuals.
Who composes the immune system in your church?
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